I figure I may as well make an official announcement, so I can start sharing more about this new world my family is uncovering, and how excited we are to be starting on this journey.
After much thought, prayer, and family consideration.. We have jumped into the world of homeschooling!
I spent the spring and summer readying our year, excitedly anticipating the beginning of this very new journey. I have been reading everything I can on different methods, which has been so inspiring and uplifting. It has opened up a whole new world of possibilities to our family. This will actually be a big lifestyle change for us, but one that we are excited to be intentionally making.
It has actually reminded me a lot of my homebirthing journey, in that when I felt called to that, I really didn’t know anyone who had actually done the thing I was hoping to do. The case is similar here, in that I don’t have many friends or family that educates their children at home — at least I didn’t until several weeks ago. This is a totally uncharted territory for our family, and I am gathering inspiration wherever I can (Lord bless you, internet friends!) and even going way old school and digging up home educating evidence from our pioneer ancestry, old books, and in other areas of history, which has been again, just so inspiring. It hasn’t been uncommon for me to tear up as I read bits and pieces I feel are leading me step-by-step on this journey.
This has lit such a fire in my heart, and in the heart of my children. Even in these brand brand new days of trying to figure this all out, I am feeling feelings I’ve never quite felt before. I know this is right for us right now, and I know we are headed to a really sweet chapter of our story.
So to catch y’all up to speed (and for you new homeschooling mamas I HOPE ARE OUT THERE WITH ME! I’ll chat about the methods and curriculum we have felt lead to this year. I am learning that I lean in the ways of what would be called an eclectic homeschooling mama, which is so fitting *sarcastic eye roll*. I’m just an eclectic kind of gal, and can never seem to fit myself (or my parenting style, apparently) into one certain box.
Charlotte Mason: For years actually, I have studied the Charlotte Mason method of educating, and creating an atmosphere of gentleness, learning, and beauty in my home. (Sooo many pearls of wisdom in THIS BOOK , even for the non-homeschooling mama) I never thought I’d actually be homeschooling, but now I’m grateful for the familiarity I have with her beautiful way of teaching children.
This has been a natural flow for my children, because I have tried to use the practices of habit-training, sibling peace, and nature appreciation the Mason method teaches, in our home along side their schooling. I am looking forward to cultivating more of this in our home, and having more hours to do so without having such a chunk of our time together used up by having the girls in public school.
So, I am really pulling inspiration from this method in an overall atmosphere, even though I’m not sticking very closely to any sort of Mason curriculum this year (like ambleside, but I do use it as a guide rather). I have also stuck to, and will continue to stick to her reading list as our reading inspiration. Our favorites like Charlotte’s Web, Stuart Little, and the Little House series have all been on her list over the years, and have truly enriched my children’s childhood (and my motherhood, really!). Both of my big girls have read most of these books on their own after we read them aloud because they loved them so much.
We will be nature journaling, and reading living books (any book that “comes alive” for a reader about any certain subject) to cover subjects like history, science, and I’m sure many others.
The Good and The Beautiful: Pretty much as soon as my mind was made up about homeschooling, The Good and The Beautiful curriculum kept popping up in conversations I was having with other seasoned homeschooling mamas. It kept popping up in a way that pulled my heart, and I recognized this as the spirit leading me to a certain area, which is another thing you’ll hear homeschooling mamas tell you: the spirit will guide you, trust your intuition.
As soon as I looked into it, I could tell it was a good fit for me. It requires very little planning (open and go), while layering in bible, art appreciation, geography, handwriting and more into their language arts program. Words like “rich curriculum” and “truly good and beautiful” kept bubbling up around it, and now that we’ve ordered our books, I can clearly see what they mean. It is so lovely to see my girls practicing their sweet cursive writing with phrases like, “God created the flowers, animals, and trees.” and just things that are good, and lovely, and true filling up these precious minds.
For starting, it’s making me feel such a pressure off to have the year’s language arts already planned, prepped, and ready.
We are so new to this curriculum, so again, I’ll share more as my experience unfolds, but so far I basically just have an overflowing heart over the goodness that is in the books we are learning from this year. We will also be pulling from The Good and The Beautiful book list, which has been helpful in terms of reading placement, an overview of each book, and knowing the standards of which they choose the literature.
We will be doing our Language Arts (which layers in aforementioned subjects), I also ordered their handwriting and typing programs, per the request of my girls, and they have been enjoying them so far. Stella has especially taken to the handwriting, as she’s learning cursive for the first time (officially, she’s picked up most of it already on her own).
MATH: the math program we are dabbling with right now is Teaching Textbooks. So far, my girls are loving it. It’s an online curriculum, which is a really good fit for Harlo, and I really love it because it’s super thorough and requires almost nothing from me. This math starts at year 3, which both my girls are at or above. Grae will start kindergarten next year, and we’ll be able to utilize The Good and The Beautiful math program that started with Kindergarten this (2018) year. (That’s further in the future than I am actually planning for right now though… we are very year-by-year type people.)
I am really taking the advice of the moms who have walked this path before me, and that is keeping it super simple our first year. In fact, my favorite advice I got was, “Start with the basics – reading, writing and arithmetic, and other than that, just educate the heart.”
Well, that is exactly what I intend to do this year.
Y’all, I am just SO EXCITED. Mainly about the level of intention this new way of life requires. I mean every last subject is prayed over, thought through, and packed with goodness. There are no sterile textbooks here, no rigid scheduling, no cold, classrooms stuffed with different personalities, levels, and styles of learning. Just learning at home, together, the way we’ve always done since the minute they were born. This feels so authentic to me, and my parenting, and our family. It feels less like starting something, and more like continuing something. It feels like I have found my place here.
So if homeschooling is not your jam, hey! I get it. Feel free to skip over these schooling posts, OR have a look at a life completely different than your own. (Even when I wasn’t homeschooling, I loved following homeschooling blogs and instagram accounts.)
If you are a homeschooling mama (new or otherwise!), please introduce yourself!! I neeeed some homeschooling friends! I have become such a believer in community, and everything I’ve seen of this homeschooling community so far is so warm and welcoming.
I plan on sharing a lot more about how we got here, and how our story will unfold from here, but is there any questions in particular you have for me on this subject? I’d love to add it together in a big post for anyone interested!
Amber Robertson
Thank you so much for sharing!! My oldest will be in first grade this year and homeschooling is weighing so heavy on my heart! I initially planned on homeschooling right from the start but last year when school rolled around I had a brand new baby and hadn’t prepared and went ahead and put her in public kindergarten which was so so hard for me to accept and left me feeling like a failure. Thank goodness it was only half a day and she ended up with a really great teacher and she ended up loving every minute of it!! But it has left me with a new dilemma, because she loved it so much, she is so excited for this year to start!! How have your girls adjusted to the idea of not going to public school anymore and is there anything that you did that maybe helped their transition?
Cass Miller
Amber, I was in your same position when Harlo started. She wanted to go back, and I wanted to homeschool. I think that time just wasn’t QUITE our season – I had a couple more babies, and she had a great teacher… At the end of last year, the girls had experienced some things through the year that made them more interested in the idea of switching things up. We talked a lot about it, and prayed over it, and ultimately all decided we wanted to try it.
NOW, there was one especially tough day, and that was our official last day of public school. There were tears on all parts, but a few days later, we felt a calming in our heart. I worried the first day would be tough on the girls when all their friends go back, but right now they are like “homeschool is the best thing ever! We’re so lucky!!” So…. talk it out, give it time. This is our season right now, and I’m so grateful. (I’ll write a lot more in depth about this in posts to come!) Good luck, sweet mama!
Courtney
If there is anyone that would be amazing at homeschooling it’s you Cass.
Cass Miller
So sweet of you to say! Thank, Courtney!
Sahra Friesen
Welcome to the world of homeschooling! This is an area I feel so passionately about! We are starting our 7th year in September and I feel like every year I just dive in more. I think my biggest advice is, be open to change things up. If one thing doesn’t work or feel right, try something new! All 3 of girls learn differently so I feel my teaching style is different with them all and we figure out which method is best along the way through trial and error. But honestly, it’s such a huge blessing!! Every day I feel so happy that the Lord lead me to this journey. It has been a game changer for me and our family!! Something I remind myself with every day is to enjoy this journey that God has set before me, the good and the bad. All the best to you in the new journey! I have no doubt you’ll do great.
Cass Miller
Sahra I’ve always envied your homeschool journey, and now I get to start our own! Thanks for that advice.. I may be writing you with a few questions as the weeks unfold!
Anna Williams
Wow this is awesome! I love having my kids home and would love this….maybe one day it’ll be in our future
Alexis
Aaaahhh!!! I am so excited to see you following this, as I know this was on your heart many years ago. It sounds like you are off to an amazing start!! I can’t wait to hear how it continues to go.
Kandie
You are such an inspiration Cass!!! Way to follow your heart mama!! This is so awesome!! I can not WAIT to hear about your experience, as well as how your kiddos are adjusting.
I have dreamed of homeschooling for soooo long for the sole purpose of still being the one who teaches my kids….not to mention on their level and speed! Having my kids in an environment where there are more kids being reprimanded versus being taught, more homework that makes me wonder what the heck they do all day, more tears from all of us because it’s too much and too fast paced all year long, bullies, I could go on and on….it makes my anxiety skyrocket this time of year. I think I have cried more than my kiddos lately thinking about September nearing the corner
But then for me there is having to work outside the home (inside would be ideal!) and thinking my own dream to homeschool would not work for me. IDK. Maybe it would? I’d love to hear from others as well. For now I’ll just gush over your posts LOL!
Alexis
Hugs!! I don’t know if it helps, but we have 5 kids and I have homeschooled from the beginning for so many reasons you mention. We have always had a baby or two (twins) and toddlers. It can make life hard! So while others are getting disciplined in school at home you do have kid interruptions and sometimes worse than in school. Lol I wouldn’t change it. I also work from home. I started that last year which was a bit crazy. At one point it was 40 hours a week. I managed but it was tough. I have cut down to about 25 hours, but it is doable. I have learned to let some things go
Homeschooling isn’t for every one. If you are thinking about it, I encourage you to dig and try to see if it maybe it would work for you and your family.
Kandie
Thank you for the kind words and sharing your experience Alexis
You are so sweet! I appreciate hearing others experiences, ideas and advice (good and bad!) because maybe, just maybe, it’ll open new doors to make it a reality someday. Life has a funny way of throwing out unexpected surprises 
Take care and stay blessed!!
Abby
I am starting my first year this year with two of my four kiddos! The good + beautiful is at the top of my list for curriculum as well:) thanks for sharing your journey-looking forward to following along!
Cass Miller
How exciting, Abby! We’re in the same boat! Keep in touch this year!
Heather
Hey!
As a public school teacher & a mother of 2 precious babes, this time of year I always obsess over the idea of homeschooling! Keeping them in an environment where they know they are loved & respected, where they are comfortable enough to learn from their mistakes & wont get “lost in the shuffle.” Unfortunately, it is not within my grasp financially, at least not yet. I hope to get there soon, before either of them has to endure the torture that is state testing!!
I’m curious to read about how your transition unfolds this year & I’m wishing you all best on your journey (& hoping to join your world sooner rather than later)!
Tammy
Wow Cass just when I think there is no way you could be any more awesome you go and surprise me. Amazing journey ahead for you and your littles. So proud of you.
Cass Miller
I love you, Tammy!! Thanks for your endless support! xoxo
Taylor
You’re absolutely spot on with getting your own inspiration. Good for you guys:) we have 5 kiddos, 9,7,4,3 and 4 months, and have homeschooled from the beginning. I have found that my day only feels complete if we read scriptures as a family. We have had such awesome conversations and deep learning about politics, government, war, right, wrong ect., just from reading a few verses a day. I also love the Sonlight booklist. It has never steered me wrong, no trash in the books, and really great lesssons.
Cass Miller
Thanks for your words, Taylor! I was having a day where I felt a little incapable, but as we read our scriptures this morning, we did in fact have a great conversation bubble up before we’d even started our “schooling”. I appreciate that perspective!
Tessa
Welcome to homeschooling! We are in our second year of this awesome adventure (on ig @little.rose.school) and love every minute of it! I’ve followed you for years as a fellow doula and friend to April (love that woman and her zest for life!) and I will agree with others, you and homeschooling seems like the perfect fit! I’m excited to watch your journey unfold and glean inspiration from you!
Jenna
Cass I am so excited for you and your family! You are going to do awesome and your kids will thrive in every way! This is our second year of homeschooling and we have loved it! I’m hoping to improve my book collection this year- what is the “nature book” called that you referred to in your Instagram post when your kids found that caterpillar? We would love to have something like that to turn to.
I’m so happy for you! I admire the way you live life and love your kids.
Cass Miller
Hey Jenna! The “Nature book” is Julia Rothman’s Nature Anatomy! What gems those books are. We have the set of 3 and they’re all so fun!
Here’s the link: https://amzn.to/2My4CPe